Oasis

Oasisu -- This powerful Korean film is well worth the slight annoyance of subtitles because it opens worlds most can not even imagine. It is the story of a developmentally disabled man who meets a woman with cerebral palsy. Unlike everyone else in their lives, they accept each other as they are and a relationship develops. It doesn't sound like much, but we have to remember that because the individuals are not 'normal' in society's eyes, their relationship is not accepted on the participant's terms, instead, it is considered rape.

Even though it is easy to say, "oh, that's Korea. That could never happen here!" one must wonder. The key to understanding the movie is to know that the families of the main characters are in denial about who the main characters really are. We are all surrounded by those who deny the existence of mental illness or ignore the real emotions trapped inside an individual who is unable to express them in a way the rest of us can understand. There is a powerful lesson here for anyone willing to receive it.

One side note about the marketing of the film to American audiences -- the trailer calls the developmentally disabled man "a misfit" and the woman with cerebral palsy "an outcast." "She fell in love with him. Then their families found out. Love knows." It's almost like they want you to think it's something of a romantic comedy where the families don't approve, say, like Romeo and Juliet but this is at best misleading and more like an insult those living with such conditions everywhere. Furthermore, it's an absolute perversion of the fine work of those who made this movie.

Highly recommended, but keep in mind this is adult material which is intellectually stimulating but emotionally challenging. Some will be moved to tears while others won't get it -- "they should be locked up, or at least he should" will be their mantra. And that's where the morals can be found.

Rating: 9 out of 10 Buy from Amazon.com

Truong, Monique - The Book of Salt

Truong, Monique - The Book of Salt -- I am always eager to find books and movies that open parts of the world which I do not have access to so when I stumbled across the listing for this one in the library catalog, I figured it would be worth a shot. While not a bad piece of work, I have to admit that it seemed to be more about the style of the writing rather than the telling of a story and thusly it fell short in my eyes.

This is the story of a Vietnamese homosexual who is basically banished after having an affair with the French head chef in a colonial household. He gets work where he can find it, first on a boat which lands him in Marseilles, and then finally as the personal cook to Gertrude Stein and her partner. It is something of a biography in that we are supposed to learn about who he is and how he has gotten to where he finds himself in life.

However what I found annoying and a bit confusing was the method in which the story was told. It seemed to jump around a lot between differing times in the past so that the reader felt something like a ping-pong ball. Yes, it may have worked in Pulp Fiction, but it wasn't as successful here.

The story is compelling and I'm sure it might be more meaningful to a reader who knows more about Stein, her life and her work. And the author must be commended for telling the story of someone who seemingly lacks importance (the cook) rather than just focusing on the powerful personality of the famous people.

Additionally, while the main character is an unapologetic homosexual working in a lesbian household, this book mustn't be confused with 'gay literature' since it is the story of folks who happen to not be straight, nothing more. There is nothing particularly pornographic in the story.

As for a recommendation, that is rather hard to offer. I find myself falling back to "it's not a bad book..." but that doesn't really say much. Then again, maybe it says more than I give it credit for. I guess I would recommend that those who might be interested in this novel read more about it and decide if they think it's worth the time. It certainly is a step up from mindless entertainment and can even provoke thought about lives in other parts of the world and at other times. I'm glad I read it.

Rating: 7 out of 10 Buy from Amazon.com

Queer as Folk, Season 4

Queer as Folk, Season 4 -- And the soap opera continues. Yes, folks, that's just about the best way to sum this up -- it's a gay soap! Not that that's an entirely bad thing, but we have to put things into perspective and I'm sorry, but I just don't buy the "cutting edge drama" crap. But it's enjoyable fun even if I feel compelled to fast forward through the all too frequent sex scenes.

The one thing that I have to give this show, other than the obvious hard work folks put in to making it, is they have created a forum where issues affecting the gay community can be examined and played out like no where else -- crystal queens in recovery, queer-bashing, dating someone with HIV, occasional lapses into bisexuality, supporting the community, and body image leap to mind. While personally I wish the show was a bit deeper and more thought-provoking, I realize that the fanbase is looking for something that might mimic the lives they lead or at least wish they lead.

This is not for the squeamish or homophobic clearly, but like movies and other cable series, sex plays an enormous part in the show, even more so. For anyone who likes their porn soft core, then this is a great ticket. Personally, I'd prefer a bit less sex and a bit more serious drama.

This season is pretty much more of the same so if you didn't enjoy the first three then there is no sense in wasting the time or money but if you loved the others then you will probably find plenty to enjoy here. I must admit that few shows can evoke such laughter and downright enjoyment from me, even if they really don't mean a whole lot in the end. It's just fun.

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Osama

Osama -- Don't let the title mislead, this is not about the infamous terrorist - at least, not directly. This is the story of a young woman, her mother, and grandmother trying to eke out a meager existence in the shadow of the Taliban. Again, it's a peek into a world few of us can even imagine.

Surprisingly, this movie has extremely high production values given the director and actor's lack of 'experience.' If the scenery wasn't so bleak, then we would call it beautiful, but instead it's a very stark, dusty, bland world in which the characters find themselves. The story drags a bit at parts, but that was the only noticeable weakness.

The story opens as the Taliban responds violently to a protest march by widows demanding to be allowed to work, after all there are no widow's pensions. With no men in the family, the mother decides to cut her daughter's hair and find her some work to support the family. The movie approaches it's climax when the Taliban rounds up the community's young men to begin 'teaching' them how to be good Islamic citizens. The daughter cannot pass for a boy forever...

This should be at the top of every American's must see list given what our government is doing in the bigger world. It offers no commentary on US policy but it does provide insight into what is at stake, especially for women at the hands of the Islamic fundamentalists. Don't let the sub-titles scare you off either since the movie relies much less on dialogue to tell the story than the actions of the characters.

I look forward to director Siddiq Barmak's next film.

Rating: 8 out of 10 Buy from Amazon.com